{"id":119798,"date":"2020-09-06T15:43:44","date_gmt":"2020-09-06T12:43:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.enerjigazetesi.ist\/?p=119798"},"modified":"2020-09-06T15:43:55","modified_gmt":"2020-09-06T12:43:55","slug":"haftasonu-ozel-freudun-penceresinden-saglam-bir-kisilik-ve-bilinc-alti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.enerjigazetesi.ist\/en\/haftasonu-ozel-freudun-penceresinden-saglam-bir-kisilik-ve-bilinc-alti\/","title":{"rendered":"(Turkish) Haftasonu \u00d6zel: Freud’un Penceresinden Sa\u011flam Bir Ki\u015filik ve Bilin\u00e7 Alt\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sorry, this entry is only available in Turkish<\/a>. For the sake of viewer convenience, the content is shown below in the alternative language. You may click the link to switch the active language.<\/p>

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Freud u bilir misin sevgili okur? O der ki bilin\u00e7alt\u0131n\u0131n sizinle \u00f6\u011frendi\u011fini biliyor musunuz? Farz-\u0131 misal b\u00f6yle s\u00f6yledi\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim. E\u011fer o anda Freud un yan\u0131nda olsayd\u0131n\u0131z, ne s\u00f6ylerdiniz. Haydi ba\u015flayal\u0131m…<\/h1>\n

Freud G\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc Bir Ki\u015fili\u011fe mi Sahiptir?<\/h2>\n

Farz edelim ki siz de Freud<\/strong> gibi, ki\u015filik olarak g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir altyap\u0131ya<\/strong> sahipsiniz. Yani tamam\u0131 ile Freud<\/strong> gibisiniz. Ne kadar k\u00f6t\u00fc de\u011fil mi? Ama kendi ki\u015fili\u011finizi olu\u015fturmu\u015fsan\u0131z. Bom!<\/strong> \u0130\u015fte sevindirici bir \"\"haber de\u011fil mi? Art\u0131k ayaklar\u0131 \u00fczerinde<\/strong> duran bir bireysiniz.<\/strong> Asl\u0131nda bilin\u00e7alt\u0131n\u0131z sizinle \u00f6\u011frenmeye devam eder. Yani bu durumda hepimizin bir bilin\u00e7alt\u0131 var<\/strong> hepimiz g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc insanlar\u0131z<\/strong> diyebiliriz. Hay\u0131r, neden hay\u0131r, pekala, \u015f\u00f6yle d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim. Herkes ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131ndan ders \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131yor mu? Bunu s\u00f6ylememin sebebi, her ya\u015fanan olay\u0131n bilin\u00e7alt\u0131na i\u015flenmesi<\/strong>. Yani bilin\u00e7alt\u0131na i\u015flense bile, insan fark etmedi\u011fi zaman<\/strong> bilin\u00e7alt\u0131<\/strong> ile \u00f6\u011frenmenin<\/strong> hi\u00e7bir \u00f6nemi yoktur. Ben e\u011fer g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir ki\u015fili\u011fe sahip<\/strong> olsa idim, bilin\u00e7alt\u0131m benim i\u00e7in bir hazine olacakt\u0131. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc her zaman \u00f6\u011frendi\u011fini, hayat\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri<\/strong> ile irdeleyen insanlar ve bu<\/strong>\u00a0insanlar, do\u011fru d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyordur. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc hayat bir bilin\u00e7alt\u0131n\u0131n temelidir zaten. Hayat her zaman size \u00f6\u011frettiklerini bilin\u00e7alt\u0131<\/strong> ile \u00f6\u011fretir ve e\u011fer ki\u015fili\u011finiz g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc<\/strong> ise ben her zaman \u00f6\u011frenmeye devam ediyorum<\/strong> dersiniz zaten.<\/p>\n

Neden Ben Sorusu<\/h2>\n

Neden ben bu ac\u0131lar\u0131 \u00e7ektim?<\/strong> Dikkatinizi \u00e7ekerim \u00e7ekiyorum denmiyor, \u00e7ektim<\/strong> deniyor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc sen ac\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 hala hat\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n i\u00e7in bu ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015f teraneyi unutmuyorsun. C\u00fcmlelerine, kelimelerine yans\u0131yor hala fark\u0131nda de\u011filsin. Neden sen!<\/strong> Bu ge\u00e7mi\u015fi atlatman\u0131n kolay oldu\u011funu sanma. Kimse sana b\u00f6yle bir \u00f6\u011f\u00fct vermez zaten. Ama ge\u00e7mi\u015fine ac\u0131maman\u0131 da<\/strong> tavsiye ederim. Neden mi \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc kendi silah\u0131nla kendini<\/strong> vuruyorsun. Beynine dadanm\u0131\u015f ac\u0131lar\u0131, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcp onlar\u0131 tekrarl\u0131yorsun. Bu kendine \u015fefkat g\u00f6stermektir. E\u011fer kendine \u015fefkat g\u00f6stermeye devam edersen ac\u0131lar\u0131n daha da b\u00fcy\u00fcyecek. B\u0131rak ge\u00e7mi\u015fi ge\u00e7mi\u015fte kals\u0131n. Arkandaki zalim y\u0131llar utans\u0131n<\/strong> be usta. E\u011fer hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 o travmalar\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcne kurarsan\u0131z, i\u015fte ger\u00e7ek kahraman sizsiniz. \u0130\u015fte ger\u00e7ek, sa\u011flam ki\u015fili\u011fe sahip<\/strong> olan insan sizsiniz….<\/p>\n

Hayat\u0131, soka\u011f\u0131<\/strong> ve D\u00fcnya’y\u0131<\/strong> l\u00fctfen bir kal\u0131ba sokmay\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeyin bile de\u011ferli halk\u0131m\u0131z. Neden her \u015feyi kal\u0131pla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131p betimleriz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc biz o \u015fekilde her \u015feyle, m\u00fccadele ederiz insan<\/strong> olarak. Neden mi? Bu davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z ho\u015fumuza gidiyor da ondan. Asl\u0131nda betimlemek<\/strong> ve kal\u0131ba sokmak<\/strong>, yanl\u0131\u015f bir davran\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Ama betimlemenin aff\u0131<\/strong> vard\u0131r. Kal\u0131ba sokman\u0131n<\/strong> yoktur. O y\u00fczden kendinizi bir kal\u0131ba sokarsan\u0131z. Daha iyi sonu\u00e7lar al\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z. De\u011ferli okur \u00fcstesinden gelebilece\u011fin sorunlar iste hep hayattan. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc sorunlar bizi geli\u015ftirir ve daha g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc yaparlar\u2026<\/p>\n

Muhammet Alperen ERTA\u015e \u2013 Ki\u015fisel Geli\u015fim \/ Psikoloji \u2013 Ar-Ge \u0130nceleme Edit\u00f6r\u00fc \u2013\u00a0alperenertasss@gmail.com<\/a><\/p>\n

Kaynak: G\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc Psikoloji<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Sorry, this entry is only available in Turkish. For the sake of viewer convenience, the content is shown below in the alternative language. You may click the link to switch the active language. Freud u bilir misin sevgili okur? O der ki bilin\u00e7alt\u0131n\u0131n sizinle \u00f6\u011frendi\u011fini biliyor musunuz? Farz-\u0131 misal b\u00f6yle s\u00f6yledi\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim. E\u011fer o anda […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":119801,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[53],"tags":[78692,52259,78693,78694,54584],"views":207,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.enerjigazetesi.ist\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/119798"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.enerjigazetesi.ist\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.enerjigazetesi.ist\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.enerjigazetesi.ist\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.enerjigazetesi.ist\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=119798"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.enerjigazetesi.ist\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/119798\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.enerjigazetesi.ist\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/119801"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.enerjigazetesi.ist\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=119798"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.enerjigazetesi.ist\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=119798"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.enerjigazetesi.ist\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=119798"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}