{"id":104764,"date":"2019-12-17T10:39:04","date_gmt":"2019-12-17T07:39:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.enerjigazetesi.ist\/?p=104764"},"modified":"2019-12-17T10:39:04","modified_gmt":"2019-12-17T07:39:04","slug":"kisisel-gelisim-ve-psikoloji-orgu-ipi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.enerjigazetesi.ist\/en\/kisisel-gelisim-ve-psikoloji-orgu-ipi\/","title":{"rendered":"(Turkish) Ki\u015fisel Geli\u015fim ve Psikoloji: ‘\u00d6rg\u00fc \u0130pi'"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sorry, this entry is only available in Turkish<\/a>. For the sake of viewer convenience, the content is shown below in the alternative language. You may click the link to switch the active language.<\/p>

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Ne\u015fet ERTA\u015e \u2019\u0131 bilir misiniz? O efk\u00e2rl\u0131 masalar\u0131n, dert yan\u0131\u011f\u0131, bir m\u00fctevaz\u0131 sade ne\u015fet babas\u0131. O t\u00fcrk\u00fclerini saz\u0131n\u0131n telleri aras\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131kan \u00e7\u0131\u011f\u0131rt\u0131lara yazm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Saz ne kadar a\u011flarsa, o da o kadar a\u011flat\u0131r insan\u0131. Onun en b\u00fcy\u00fck eseri, parmaklar\u0131d\u0131r, nas\u0131r tutmu\u015f parmaklar\u0131. Toprak istedi onu bizden. \u0130lk \u00f6nce vermedik, ama toprak bizden g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcyd\u00fc. Ald\u0131 onu ac\u0131mas\u0131zca. Hat\u0131ralar b\u0131rakmazd\u0131 pe\u015fini onun ge\u00e7mi\u015f ald\u0131 onu bizden. Ge\u00e7mi\u015f? Ge\u00e7mi\u015f neleri almad\u0131 ki bizden? Ne\u015fet BABA\u2019yla M\u00fcslim’\u00fcn o kederli seslerini bile ald\u0131 bizden. Bir ak\u015fam\u00fcst\u00fc oturup \u00e7ay\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 i\u00e7erken radyoda ve ya televizyonda duydunuz mu onlar\u0131n \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 hi\u00e7? \u00c7\u0131\u011fl\u0131klar\u0131 g\u00f6ktedir onlar\u0131n, efk\u00e2r dumanlar\u0131 ise bulutlar.<\/h1>\n

Sade onlar m\u0131 biz de \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131k atar\u0131z. Hayallerimiz ve yar\u0131nki umutlar\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in. Ge\u00e7mi\u015fteki ac\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in. \u00c7\u0131\u011fl\u0131k \u00a0atar\u0131z \u00a0ama, bazen sesimizi duyuramay\u0131z. Yans\u0131tamay\u0131z benli\u011fimizi \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131klarla bazen. \u0130\u015fte tam bu anda kurar\u0131z dert sofram\u0131z\u0131, ve yeme\u011finizi derdimize meze ederiz. Ge\u00e7mi\u015fi hat\u0131rlar\u0131z ya\u015far\u0131z ge\u00e7mi\u015fimizi \"\"sonra. Bazen bir g\u00fcve misali kemirir i\u00e7imizi ge\u00e7mi\u015f. B\u00f6ylelikle \u00e7\u0131kamay\u0131z ge\u00e7mi\u015fin o dert burhan\u0131ndan. Kendinizi aptal ve g\u00fcvenilmez ayn\u0131 zamanda bunlara ra\u011fmen kendi g\u00fcvenilmez oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in farkl\u0131 mutlu sanan birinin yerine koyun. Ne kadar yolunda da gitse i\u015finiz yine de mutlu olman\u0131z imkans\u0131zd\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc zannetmekle asl\u0131nda \u00f6yle olman\u0131n, farkl\u0131 \u015feyler oldu\u011funu asla bilemezsiniz. Ama e\u011fer yap\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirirseniz ancak o zaman s\u0131f\u0131rdan bir daha ba\u015flama \u015fans\u0131n\u0131z olur. Yeniden ba\u015flaman\u0131n ilk ilkesi her \u015feyi dengelemektir.<\/p>\n

Bu size her \u015feyi yeniden in\u015fa etme f\u0131rsat\u0131 verir. Bu konuda ya\u015famas\u0131 en zor \u015feylerden birisi disosiyatif kimlik bozuklu\u011funa<\/strong> \u00f6rnek vermek isterim. Bu hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131yan ki\u015filer hem d\u00fczenbaz, g\u00fcvenilmez ayn\u0131 zamanda da d\u00fcnyada g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz en naif ki\u015fi olabilir<\/strong>. Ben burada ki\u015fili\u011fi ve(ya) karakteri bir ipli\u011fe benzetiyorum. Birden fazla ipli\u011finiz oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. Siz bunlarla bir kazak \u00f6receksiniz. \u00d6rece\u011finiz kazak da karakteriniz. Ama birden fazla ipli\u011finiz olursa, tek renk de\u011fil de renkli bir kazak \u00f6receksiniz. Tabi ki renkli bir kazak \u00f6rmenin faydalar\u0131<\/strong> var, bu Tanr\u0131n\u0131n size verdi\u011fi bir hediye olacak. Ama bu kaza\u011f\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131ma sorumlulu\u011fu sizin elinizde.\u00a0Ta\u015f\u0131yamaz da kaza\u011f\u0131 zedelerseniz?<\/strong> O zaman kaza\u011fa yama yapmak zorunda kalacaks\u0131n\u0131z. Yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z yamalar toplum i\u00e7inde, ya yamal\u0131 bu denmenize neden olursa ki olacak. Diyelim ki bu yamalar\u0131 saklayabilmeyi ba\u015fard\u0131n\u0131z. Ama nereye kadar saklayacaks\u0131n\u0131z? \u0130llaki saklad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bu yamalar bir yerde tak\u0131l\u0131p s\u00f6k\u00fclecek. O zaman bu yamalar\u0131n\u0131zla birlikte, di\u011fer s\u00f6k\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f ve yamalanm\u0131\u015f yerleri de hat\u0131rlay\u0131p pani\u011fe kap\u0131lacaks\u0131n\u0131z. O zaman daha da alt \u00fcst olacaks\u0131n\u0131z. Bu y\u00fczden ilk yapmam\u0131z gereken \u015fey \u015fu;\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Yamas\u0131 fazla olan insanlara sayg\u0131 g\u00f6stermek ve o insanlar\u0131n yapt\u0131klar\u0131 tuhaf hareketleri g\u00f6z ard\u0131 etmek<\/strong>. O insanlardan yamas\u0131 oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in uzak durmak de\u011fil<\/strong> de onlar\u0131 tan\u0131maya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak. Sonu\u00e7ta toplumda ya\u015f\u0131yorlar ve size herhangi bir zararlar\u0131 olmayacak. Bunun fark\u0131nda<\/strong> olman\u0131z ve \u00f6n yarg\u0131<\/strong> ile yakla\u015fmaman\u0131z en iyisi olacakt\u0131r. Tek iplikle ya\u015faman\u0131n mutlulu\u011fu<\/strong> i\u00e7inde olman\u0131z dile\u011fiyle\u2026<\/p>\n

Muhammet Alperen ERTA\u015e \u2013 Ki\u015fisel Geli\u015fim \/ Psikoloji \u2013 Ar-Ge \u0130nceleme Edit\u00f6r\u00fc \u2013\u00a0alperenertasss@gmail.com<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Sorry, this entry is only available in Turkish. For the sake of viewer convenience, the content is shown below in the alternative language. You may click the link to switch the active language. Ne\u015fet ERTA\u015e \u2019\u0131 bilir misiniz? O efk\u00e2rl\u0131 masalar\u0131n, dert yan\u0131\u011f\u0131, bir m\u00fctevaz\u0131 sade ne\u015fet babas\u0131. O t\u00fcrk\u00fclerini saz\u0131n\u0131n telleri aras\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131kan \u00e7\u0131\u011f\u0131rt\u0131lara […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":104766,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[51,53],"tags":[63071,63078,52259,63074,63080,63081,63082,63076,63079,59707,55534,54584,63073,63072,63083,63085,63084,63075,63077],"views":436,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.enerjigazetesi.ist\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/104764"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.enerjigazetesi.ist\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.enerjigazetesi.ist\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.enerjigazetesi.ist\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.enerjigazetesi.ist\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=104764"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.enerjigazetesi.ist\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/104764\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.enerjigazetesi.ist\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/104766"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.enerjigazetesi.ist\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=104764"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.enerjigazetesi.ist\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=104764"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.enerjigazetesi.ist\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=104764"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}